Most of the girls like to have these qualities in their soulmate-
1. Confidence
2. Loving and caring nature
3. Make her laugh
4. Take care of his physical appearance
5. Be it yourself
6. initiator
7. Treat her like his princess
8. Don’t show his desperation
9. Understanding nature

These are steps which you can follow to attract the right partner –

  • Make a list – please make a list of characteristics of your potential partner. It might sound crazy but it’s not. Most of us actuality don’t know what exactly we are looking for but we just assume that we know. A perfect example of this to make a list of grocery shopping. When you make a list before going to the grocery store, you’ll likely spend less on impulse purchases and stick to the aisles that have the foods you are looking for.
    But if you don’t have a list you will end up to buy the unnecessary thing, and forgot required one.So please make a list you for your potential partner.
  • Be confident and yourself- You don’t have to try to act or bear a fake mask; just be yourself. If you are afraid to talk to girls and your nervousness is holding you back, you can approach a girl as a friend. Don’t set out looking for a girlfriend, or you’ll just end up looking desperate. this is mind trick because if you will focus on “Girlfriend” you will freak out. But if you just focus on making friends then your mind will be calm. Self-confidence and self-sufficiency are extremely sexy qualities in a person, and you will not seem like you have either of these if you’re begging every girl you meet to go out with you. Making good friends with women will help you practice holding conversations with them, as well as learning how women feel and think in general. More importantly, you’ll be helping yourself feel less lonely without desperately seeking a girlfriend.
  • Overcome the Fear of Rejection – In our society, we have been taught to be accepted and liked by other people. No one has ever prepared us for rejection. So if you’ve had one or more really bad experiences of being bullied, rejected or excluded in the past, you’re probably keen to avoid that happening again. But this might make you too cautious. Remember, someone refusal doesn’t mean that there is something wrong with you. It’s simply mean that you are not fit in their list or selection criteria.
  • Stop Procrastination; Take Action Now – Remember thinking whole day about your life partner is not going to help you, you need to take action as well. When you see your dream girl, don’t make excuses like ‘she’s probably in a relationship’, ‘she is on her phone’, or ‘man, I look so bad’. Approach her. In the worst case, she will say no but in this case, you are learning rejection.
  • Be Socialise– Make a list of place where you can find that potential partner. Suppose if you are looking a girl who is very physically active, one of the places you want to go in a gym. Find social groups and events where your mate might spend time, and where there are likely to be plenty of conversations with each of the people involved. It’s very important that you put yourself where you’re likely to find your ideal girl instead of hoping that that person is the next one to sit down on the bar stool beside yours.
  • Make a good first impression – Dress and present yourself well when you are looking for a girl. Initially, these things help you to draw an attention. It will also boost your confidence.
  • Be Initiator – At the beginning of the dating period, most women like men to take the initiative. So when you are willing to take her out, have in mind at least two attractive options to offer. Don’t contact her and ask her what she wants to do without proposing an alternative yourself, or she will most likely think that you are lazy or not putting enough interest.
  • Follow through – If you meet a nice girl who seems interested in you, try to follow through with this. If you like her back, be willing and confident enough to ask her out. Be subtle at first. A person we just met may seem creepy setting up a fancy candlelit dinner for two on our first casual meeting, connection or not. Try taking her out for coffee after school or work. If she says no, then she either isn’t ready, or she doesn’t like you. Don’t persist, this will push her away more, but be friendly until she starts showing a more romantic interest, and then try again and after then you can ask her for a date.
  • Don’t settle for less than what you deserve: As I mentioned above, you need to know what exactly you are seeking. If you think that the person you got is not ideal then please don’t go for it. Don’t be disappointed. Trust me the universe is full of Treasures and you are going to attract your ones.

   So Gentlemen, all the best for your soulmate finding journey. :).  

 

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